SOLSC 3/21/14 - To the Special Man in My Life

On March 21, 1970, 44 years ago, my parents walked me down the church aisle to wed my husband to be.   It was the first day of spring that year and a beautiful day - sunny and almost 60 - for Illinois in March. The church was full of family and friends.  Our vows were said, music was played.

Weddings in the early 70's were not elaborate affairs like they are today.  We had a simple reception with cake and coffee being served by the Ladies Group from church.  Gifts were opened and a delightful time was had by all.  Afterwards, Mom and Dad had a dinner for our families, all prepared by Mom.

We had no big plans for a honeymoon, but we drove south for about an hour and stopped in Rantoul.  We had planned to go to Champaign, but the high school basketball state tournaments were being played there and no hotels available.  The following day we drove back to Mom and Dad's to pack up our gifts and other belongings to drive to Dover, Delaware, where hubby was stationed in the Air Force. 

On this day 44 years ago, I married my best friend, my lover, my confidant, my encourager, my helper, my cook, my Mr. Fix It and jack of all trades.  Oh, sure, as in any marriage, there have been (and probably will continue to be) some rough patches along the way.  But we have managed to weather those stormy times.  God has blessed us with two wonderful children and their spouses, two adorable granddaughters and many friends.

Today (and every day) I am embracing my hubby and wishing him a very Happy Anniversary.  I love you with all my heart and my love grows stronger every day!  Love ya, Me 

Comments

  1. JaanaMarch 21, 2014 at 5:50 AM

    This was beautiful! Congratulations on 44 years enjoying life together!

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  2. LynnMarch 21, 2014 at 7:29 AM

    Oh such a beautiful message to your husband and your marriage! This year it will be 30 for my hubby and me . . . where does the time go?

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  3. MichelleMarch 21, 2014 at 7:46 AM

    He sure is a keeper! (Love ya Dad!) Happy anniversary to you both! A long, happy, healthy marriage isn't easy these days (culture shock!) because your trust and faith in God has continued to grow you two together. You're the model of marriage for us and we are so blessed so see your love for each other!

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  4. UnknownMarch 21, 2014 at 7:46 AM

    Yes, congratulations on 44 years of wedded bliss! And I loved reading about your reception with cake and coffee at the church. I think too many people focus on the wedding and not the marriage. I'm so happy for both of you.

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  5. AnonymousMarch 21, 2014 at 9:02 AM

    Congratulations on 44 years. What a love tribute. There will always be stumbling blocks in any relationship, but with love and faith they can be conquered. May you have many more happy years together.

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  6. TaraMarch 21, 2014 at 11:25 AM

    Happy Anniversary - you were both lucky in love, lucky in life!

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  7. ChrisMarch 21, 2014 at 12:54 PM

    Happy anniversary to youuuuu! May you have many more wonderful years together. You are an inspiration to us, as well as a reminder that together, people can weather the toughest storms!

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  8. Terje March 21, 2014 at 2:52 PM

    Happy Anniversary! 44 years is a solid number, a strong foundation for the continuously growing love.

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  9. elsieMarch 21, 2014 at 3:20 PM

    Where does the time go? Forty-four years is an accomplishment in this day. Congrats to you both! I hope this means a nice dinner out tonight. (This year will be 37 for us. Can't believe it!)

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  10. Linda BMarch 21, 2014 at 3:39 PM

    Happy Anniversary Judy. What a loving post to capture some of those memories. Forty-four years is a long time. You are blessed to have had them. I wish you many more!

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